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]]>The current lack of bi-partisan cooperation in part reflects a polarity of ideas, but also a distressing amount of “boys and girls behaving badly.”
The current gap between the parties is reflected in part by the recalcitrance of Republicans to accept ideas of President Barack Obama, even when they agree with them coupled with President Obama’s “enabling behavior.” Continually he goes back to the well, reaching across the aisle for cooperation, and repeatedly being rejected, even humiliated. Common wisdom is if you’re being “gamed,” the wise thing to do is quit the game or find another one to play. Republicans clearly do not want to give President Obama credit for anything, even if it’s consistent with their agenda and the president continues to be “community organizer in chief,” trying to answer Rodney King’s question, “People, can’t we all get together?”
It may be that the best way for us to break the decades-long grid in which we’re locked is to try new strategies to address the idea gap between the parties and the childish behavior reflective in both.
Children in kindergarten learn and practice basic elements of fairness and sharing. Andre and Rebecca each get an opportunity to get their water color supplies first. George and Serena each have days when they are responsible for sponging down the lunch table. Small children learn that fairness means the same rules apply to everyone, and anyone who misbehaves can expect some sort of a consequence.
The American psychologist Abraham Maslow is noted for presenting his theory on the “hierarchy of human needs.” He studied what he called exemplary people such as Albert Einstein, Jane Addams, Eleanor Roosevelt, and Frederick Douglass. Why is this important to the ways in which Democrats and Republicans act? Let’s start with something that Eleanor Roosevelt authored: Article 1 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. She wrote, “All humans are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood.” I have discussed this article dozens of times with students, and the two key words are “reason” and “conscience” because the degree to which humans possess them is what separates us from other forms of life.
Bi-partisanship survives the first four stages of Maslow’s hierarchy. The disconnect occurs trying to integrate stage five into the behavior of most political persona. They often reach Stage 4 and feel good about themselves, but when it comes to exercising the reason about which Eleanor Roosevelt wrote, they fall apart.
The logical and unfortunate conclusion is that most politicians feel better about themselves when they do not exercise reason, empathy, and conscience. Much more appealing than seeking solutions is playing the “blame game,” engaging in name-calling, acting with bravado, and turning a blind eye to the problems that face constituents. The one exception to this pattern is when they can agree on ways to distribute pork among themselves to ingratiate themselves with voters and to deepen their campaign coffers.
Can this dysfunctional behavior stop? Yes, but it requires an understanding of a basic concept: what goes around comes around. While ideological gaps will (and perhaps should) be difficult to bridge, here are some procedural changes that are fundamental to breaking gridlock. Each party has an equal interest in supporting these changes because the reforms loosen the grip that the ruling majority has over the minority, and each party spends about half its time in the minority.
It becomes trite to say that “everything I needed to know I learned in kindergarten,” but trite is often true. Perhaps the question should not be “what did you learn in kindergarten,” but “what did you forget since kindergarten?” When it comes to fair play and the best interests of the group, our politicians act as if they were absent when kindergarten happened. Maturity should not have a party affiliation. Things will change, and only change, when the party in the majority thinks about what its own best interests will be when it inevitably is again is in the minority. If politicians are blind to this reality, then we need more citizens to stand up and remind them.
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