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{"id":39532,"date":"2018-12-17T11:15:47","date_gmt":"2018-12-17T17:15:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/occasionalplanet.org\/?p=39532"},"modified":"2018-12-19T10:22:41","modified_gmt":"2018-12-19T16:22:41","slug":"michelle-obamas-lack-of-comfort-with-politics-can-teach-us-all-something","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/occasionalplanet.org\/2018\/12\/17\/michelle-obamas-lack-of-comfort-with-politics-can-teach-us-all-something\/","title":{"rendered":"Michelle Obama\u2019s Lack of Comfort with Politics Can Teach us all something"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

As much as people may want to say that Barack Obama was an unconventional politician, he was very traditional in his approach, just modern in his techniques. Ever since Andy Jackson doubled the size of the American electorate to his advantage, following a frustrating loss in 1824, the name of the game in politics has been to reach as many voters as possible. It\u2019s called retail politics; meet voters personally and engage them in your campaign. Obama became the first presidential candidate to utilize all the bells and whistles that are available through social media and internet solicitations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This game is incredibly intense and exhausting for the candidates. There\u2019s never a time to stop because there\u2019s always another voter waiting to be convinced. This is nothing new, but what is so revealing in Michelle Obama\u2019s memoir, Becoming<\/a>, is the toll that campaigning takes on a modern marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Michelle Obama clearly reveals the stress that her husband\u2019s campaigning and life in politics put on her, her marriage and the entire family. \u00a0When she fell in love with Barack Obama and they mutually decided to be one another\u2019s life partners, she was not aware of how his ambitions would strain the relationship. She knew that he was unusual; that he had passions beyond his personal life, but that held true for her as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She knew that there was a side of him that was largely nurtured by solitude. In every home where they lived, he needed to have an intellectual\u2019s man cave \u2013 a room where he could work alone on his projects. First among these was trying to better understand his roots and how he had become who he was. This was the work on his first book, Dreams from My Father<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first time that Michelle met Barack, she quickly learned that he was a procrastinator and his S.O.P. was to be late. Such was the case with the deadline that his publisher gave him for his manuscript. Obama concluded that the best way for him to finish the work was for him to go far away to a lonely spot to work without distraction. That took him to Bali, where he had lived for part of his youth, where he spent five weeks writing a complex narrative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Michelle Robinson had grown up in a very traditional household on the south side of Chicago where presence, punctuality and personal engagement were the norms. To the extent that she thought about marriage as she was growing up, it did not include extended absences and pre-occupations that were largely outside her orbit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If Barack was not in Bali sorting out and writing about his personal metamorphosis, he was in the very ordinary burgh of Springfield, IL, three hours southwest of Chicago, where as a state senator he was learning the skills of effective politicking and trying to advance a progressive agenda amid a Republican majority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

During that period, at least Obama was able to confine his campaigning to his senatorial district in Chicago (although he had already developed a wide network of funders). But when he ran for the U.S.Senate in 2004, he had to reach out to southern Illinois (aka Little Dixie) where his sophisticated persona was sometimes at odds with the locals such as when he ordered Dijon Mustard in a downstate Applebee\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No sooner was he elected to the U.S. Senate than he was campaigning across the country, first for other candidates and then for his own presidential campaign. He tried to keep his commitment to Michelle for a \u201cFriday date\u201d every week, but that too became impossible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Michelle Obama understands that her husband is not just a soul mate, but also someone with extraordinary gifts, skills and commitments. He is very altruistic. The money that he pursued was not for personal gain but rather to advance a political agenda that helped those among us who are most in need. She is torn between her desire for traditional family life and honoring the goals and lifestyle of someone as extraordinary as her husband. She said,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“In an ideal world(my ideal world, anyway), Barack would do something like become the head of a foundation, where he could have an impact on issues that mattered and also make it home for dinner at night.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Michelle Obama is not the only spouse of a driven politician. In one sense, it does not matter whether someone running for office has the compassion of many progressives or the intense commitment to individual liberties of a conservative. When it comes to running for office, the demands are the same for each. It is not a pretty sight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is interesting how corporate America and other workplaces have made advances in recent years to help employees keep a balance between work and family life. We have had maternity leave for some time, but it has been expanded. Paternity leave is new. So is flex-time and tele-commuting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But absent in these reforms is anything that would allow the politicians who make some of these rules to have balanced lives while they are running for office. Calls for reform are few and far between, even from the progressives who are the primary sponsors of laws to provide balance between work and family life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Barack Obama is clearly a global thinker. In light of that, what can he do to honor the concerns of Michelle and others like her who must sacrifice so much for their spouse\u2019s ambitions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a nutshell, what is needed are logical and sensible reforms in the way we do politics in America. These include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n